Swinging Etiquette Rule #1

We were having a lovely time with a couple last night. Popped their swinger cherries actually, which is a bit of a novelty.

I just had to write though to let any interested parties know about something you should never, ever, EVER do when engaging in group sex...

While one of the ladies was giving head to the other guy, the guy said to his partner, "Actually she is better than you."

The Horror! Why would one say such a thing???

And then, as if that wasn't enough, he also said "but I don't blame you for it".
(Ah yes, that makes it all better, doesn't it?)

Advice to anyone considering, starting out, or engaging in the world of wife swapping, never make comparisons! Doesn't that seem obvious? You would think it was, but obviously it's not.

People get jealous. People are sensitive. Especially when sharing their most intimate moments with others. Don't ever think that your relationship is secure enough to tell your partner that their sexual skills don't compare. Not only is it potentially hurtful to your partner, it can make for an uncomfortable situation for everyone.

If you want to keep everyone happy and turned on, don't voice your comparisons. Keep your thoughts to yourself and enjoy your good fortune!

Good night xo