Love and Lust

Ahhh, the blog calls me back again.

For those of you who missed us, thanks for the comments and all is well in tendernfine land. Honestly, the sexual adventures and even desires wax and wane, but thank goodness that when lust takes a break that love takes the reins!

Love? "Phhtooey!", says You... "We want lust!"

Well, in order for this blog--read: our adventures in swinging and sensuality--to survive it must be about both lust and love. Up until now I have felt a certain guilt for the waning of lust, but in the long run the Tendernfines will be better off if we can acknowledge those times... perhaps even remedy them!

Swinging at its best is really about love too, isn't it? It is a delicate dance whose balance and grace depends on a high level of trust, understanding and flexibility... all of which are a part of a lasting love affair.

I've talked about how swinging has both brought us closer and also at times caused a rift between us. Swinging can be a fatal venture for a relationship that is already tipsy turvy--yes, we've witnessed a few break-ups along the way because of it--but if you want to come out the other side still together, you will definitely need solid communication and commitment. Then the real sexiness can shine!

Anyway, we are still in a waning period, and I'm currently just sitting here in my armchair philosophizing about it all, but the good news is that we are still here and what goes down must come up!

Stay tuned for more sexy pics, stories and good times!