My Willing Behind

Mr. Fine and I enjoy anal sex very infrequently, but I've come to realize that it should become more frequent due to our recent and most enjoyable session.

Right now it's really only like once every 3-6 months, but once a month seems desirable. I don't want it to be too frequent and risk becoming not as special or exciting, because it's fun to have something saved for special occasions. Right now when we have anal sex there is an extra special intimacy between us during and after that I enjoy.

This was such a lovely occasion. My arse was clean as a whistle from a very thorough enema session, which I find to be an essential preparation. Knowing there won't be even a hint of dirt makes me feel much more at ease, even though he says he doesn't care and even that it would in some way turn him on.

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He did such a nice job of working me up to it. After a little kissing and cuddling I rolled onto my stomach. I love being in that position for any type of sex.

He slowly kissed his way down and started licking my clit and stimulating my ass from behind, starting gently and then more firmly and hungrily, and then back again. I love the unpredictable variation!

I was very relaxed and eager for ass play as he slowly teased me with the lubed up butt plug and gently inserted it. And the additional clit stimulation really got me going, as well.

I was dripping wet from the lube and, leaving the butt plug in me, he fucked me for a brief time, which felt really good having double the sensations happening.

For some reason my body just really likes the anal play. As I said before there is something that feels deeper and more intimate about anal. And the moment something is in my ass, my clit becomes like a firecracker just wanting to go off! So sensitive that it only takes a few minutes before I climax, along with clit stimulation of course.

Mr.Fine was extra sweet this time and I found that while he fucked my ass, if I looked back and saw just a hint of his hip movements it drove me wild. It really completed the picture of him inside me and he looked so sexy.

I gently rubbed my clit and we climaxed together, with me only seconds before him. It was a powerful orgasm and I was more vocal than usual. I had such a warm fuzzy glow after and we had a great cuddle session because we felt extra close I think... yum.

This time definitely wet my appetite for future anal endeavors sooner than later.

My Swinging Story

So we've been on hiatus since I last wrote. Very busy in other parts of our life and re-evaluating what we were doing in the lifestyle. We definitely learned a lot about our boundaries from our previous experiences and feel ready to dabble again.

We met up for drinks with a couple last night and the fellow asked me what motivated me to want to try swinging. I think I found it difficult to answer and I thought it would be an appropriate post to explore here as we embark on it again.

I think I've always felt like a sexual person. Quite early on I engaged my Barbie dolls in various scenes, many of my drawings had a sexual tone and I thought about sex a lot.

Once I had navigated my way through the awkward years of discovery, I came to really enjoy sex with another person and put a lot of effort into learning and improving my techniques.

My current partner is one of the most sexual and kinky people I've been with, and one of our first times having sex he placed a silk scarf over my eyes just to kind of establish early on that he wasn't a vanilla kind of guy. I really enjoyed it and we've explored more ever since.

Within the first year he opened up to me about already having dabbled in the lifestyle with a previous girlfriend. Though I had never experienced anything in the past, I had had one opportunity come up where something might have happened with another couple my previous boyfriend and I were friends with.

Since then I had thought about group sex with interest and just became really open to the idea, so when Mr.Fine told me about his experiences, I think I knew that someday we would do these kind of things too.

One day about a year into our relationship I decided I wanted to see who else was out there exploring the taboo side of life. I created a free profile on one of the more popular sites and once my partner found out, he was so excited and said "We are absolutely going to pay for a membership and see what's going on!"

So, I guess my motivation to sign up was first a curiousity to see who else was out there doing it, but I also fantasized about being with women whom I found very attractive and sensual and mysterious, and I had a desire to just feel more sensual with other people in a group setting.

I would have to say that because my partner had done it in the past, I wanted to indulge him as well. I knew that sexuality was an important part of life for him and wanted to make sure we kept things varied and spicy.

Since we've started, I have a lot of fond memories and we've met such a wide variety of people that we would never encounter in our daily lives otherwise.

We've had some great four-some sex, have an interest in taking four to more, and always leave the night feeling closer and knowing more about each other.